Quick Thoughts
Small thoughts and messages not worthy of their own pages but still something I feel like putting out there. Largely curated and possibly lightly edited from my posts and discussions in the WFM server.
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IDK why but I was randomly thinking of an old story I heard where a domme had a sub who wanted a session without a safeword… no limits. And she tied him to a chair and gave him a safeword anyway.
And he’s like “I’m not going to use it” and she’s like “that’s fine, but you have it just in case”And while he was tied to the chair, she went and got his favorite expensive coat and threw it on the ground in front of him and walked on it with muddy shoes. Then took his maps and opened them and started folding them back the wrong way and probably in creative and awful ways.
And he safeworded.
(man… maps
Like. I remember having maps. But that’s such an odd thing nowaways.
Used to be everyone had maps in their cars. Or you’d buy maps for a trip. Crazy)Too many new subs wear that sort of thing like a badge of honor. Like it’s something to be proud of, having “no limits” (everyone has limits and if you don’t, you probably need therapy before anyone should ever play with you), or never safewording.
Like. It’s just a recipe for disaster.
I get how it can seem hot in fantasy, but there are very real stakes when you play in BDSM territory and safety nets are there for a reasonI tell people I don’t use safewords and them immediately explain: it’s because I do it in plain english. Effectively “no” is my safeword. 🤷♀️ Or it’s usually “hold on, my arm is going to sleep” 😂
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