Quick Thoughts
Small thoughts and messages not worthy of their own pages but still something I feel like putting out there. Largely curated and possibly lightly edited from my posts and discussions in the WFM server.
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In response to having that feeling that saying “no” is risky and may turn a dominant off…
That is a real feeling but one that you have to manage because you a responsibility to yourself and your dom to keep yourself safe. I remember feeling that when I was young and new, but experience (and good doms) have taught me that a dom gets to go all out and really push you as hard as they want, if they’re aware of your limits and also secure in the knowledge that you can tell them when you’re at your limits or being asked to do something that you feel is unsafe (aka: safewording). It’s a fantasy to never say “no”. A sexy one, which is why limits are discussed in advance, but sometimes surprises happen. If your subspace prevents that, then your limits need to be stricter and communicated clearly in advance to prevent you from being put in a situation that would upset your dom if they find out later that they went too far.
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