Quick Thoughts

Small thoughts and messages not worthy of their own pages but still something I feel like putting out there. Largely curated and possibly lightly edited from my posts and discussions in the WFM server.

  • Communication really is key to all good relationships (kink or otherwise). And if you’re with someone who doesn’t want to hear it, you’re with the wrong someone

    like, to be fair, I take my communication up a notch with some of the things I log and provide Tim as part of our dynamic that I don’t bother telling Sam because it doesn’t matter to him/us.
    Medication, caffeine, my period, my weight on the days I bother to check it…
    I was already tracking all of those to some degree or another, although I wasn’t quite as diligent on a couple of them as I am now since he’s actually looking at the logs. But I have caffeine records going back to 2015. I just moved my tracking method from private to shared 🤷‍♀️

    But yeah, I tell Tim as much as I can. And he uses some of it against me 😅 (in a fun or at least good way)
    (Tim does not use my feelings against me unless they’re like… kinky feelings 😳. Because by “against me” I mean for kinky fun.)

    Including and especially when I’m having irrational feelings about something


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