Quick Thoughts
Small thoughts and messages not worthy of their own pages but still something I feel like putting out there. Largely curated and possibly lightly edited from my posts and discussions in the WFM server.
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I try really hard to prevent gatekeeping in my spaces 😅
Kink is historically gatekeepy so it’s not super surprising that some niche servers are like that.
The more niche the interest, the more people want to feel special by excluding others.The book I was reading the other day was talking about how it was generally looked down on to even talk about kink outside of the small circles of trust in the 70’s. Like breaking into the scene was hard and then you had to climb the social ladder to learn things because they weren’t all that open about teaching newbies like we are today
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