Quick Thoughts
Small thoughts and messages not worthy of their own pages but still something I feel like putting out there. Largely curated and possibly lightly edited from my posts and discussions in the WFM server.
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It’s taken me a while but I’ve noticed the shift in my language when talking about Tim in kink-friendly crowds. I started with “boyfriend/dominant” when our relationship was new, and over time have shifted to almost always use “owner” if I’m not just straight up using Tim’s name.
I’m happy with this shift. When we started calling him my owner, it took me a long time to start internalizing it, and this shift in language is a good sign. I don’t know that I entirely feel it, but the label is there and I do trust Tim to take care of me when I need to be taken care of.
It was a surprise to me when we were talking about dying my hair and he calmly told me it was something he’d allow. I had to back-track a little and mull over that comment. I’d never actually thought that far into it. It makes sense. If he owns this body then I should ask permission before making changes to it. But we’d never discussed that aspect before. What else should I be discussing with him if this body is his?
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