Quick Thoughts
Small thoughts and messages not worthy of their own pages but still something I feel like putting out there. Largely curated and possibly lightly edited from my posts and discussions in the WFM server.
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Kinksters can’t even agree on safety, which is why RACK became a thing because people thought SSC was too preachy
The only things I’ve seen people actually fully 100% agree on is:
(RACK: Risk Aware Consensual Kink; SSC: Safe Sane and Consensual)- Open and honest communication is crucial
- Everything has to be consensual
And I want to say people tend to agree that if you’re going to take risks, you’d best educate yourself to take educated and calculated risks, otherwise, don’t take risks.
I would say though there are a lot of right ways to do things, and a lot of wrong ways to do things. And the most important thing is to educate yourself on the right and wrong ways so you can be as safe about everything as possible and only take informed risks
But I think because there are so many conflicting viewpoints on things, it’s important to learn from as many people with real experience as you can. I have definitely come across people that have based their strong opinions solely on pornography and hope.
A general picture does seem to come out the more people you talk to, but it also shows you how diverse we all are. How some of us like pain, some of us hate it. Some of us a risk-averse, and some of us do dangerous things. How some of us like rope, hate rope, love bondage, hate bondage, want to control someone, want to be controlled, want nothing to do with either…
I genuinely love how diverse the community is, and how welcoming the community tends to be. ❤️
There are bad pockets, but you find that anywhere in any group of people. On the whole though… you’re all lovely people 💖
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