Quick Thoughts
Small thoughts and messages not worthy of their own pages but still something I feel like putting out there. Largely curated and possibly lightly edited from my posts and discussions in the WFM server.
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(Intro when I joined the submissive-only server)
Preferred Name/Title/Alias: Beta (It’s a name/handle not a title nor a description)
Type(s) of submissive: 🤷♀️ Shrug?
I’m not a service sub, nor a brat, nor into roleplay. IDK. I’m not very good at fitting into molds/labels sometimes.
Pronouns: she/her
Describe your current dynamic: TPE-ish? He pretty much has however much power over me he wants, and he takes care of me. I’m pretty independent though, which works well for both of us.
Hobbies/Interests: So, so much. Crafting of most types (recently got into leatherworking and I’m making so many fun leather restraints and toys, but not all are leather). I keep chickens. Dog training to some extent. Gardening. Programming. I help run an anime convention. I write a tiny bit.
Kinks: Bondage and impact play are my top ones. I have a bunch more but am not interested in writing an exhaustive list.
Limits: None of your business, thanks 😅
I only really disclose that list to someone I intend to play with.
Areas of Expertise: Research? Trying things. Experience… Kind of a Jack of all Trades. I have presented panels for general BDSM Q&A, and Polyamory at the local anime con.Bio
I’ve been a submissive for 26 years. I’ve been poly somewhere in the neighborhood of 21 years. I have two life partners: Sam, a vanilla husband of 13 years; and Tim, my dominant for 3 years who shifted from dominant/boyfriend to owner in about 2 years. I have permission to use their names in online kink spaces.Was wild in my youth and happy to share experiences and cautions (still kinda wild, just… less-so). In my time as a submissive I have tried a lot of things with a lot of people. And still trying things! But mostly just with Tim 😄 ❤️
I’m a leader and bossy and intimidating and driven… and am happiest to just do what I’m told but only for the ones I’ve submitted to.