Quick Thoughts
Small thoughts and messages not worthy of their own pages but still something I feel like putting out there. Largely curated and possibly lightly edited from my posts and discussions in the WFM server.
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Don’t make assumptions. If you’re worried your dominant is thinking or feeling something, you need to ask.
I’m a huge advocate for over-communicating with the dominant. It’s perfectly okay to do, and dominants like to know what’s going on in your head. This allows them to push up to your limits without going over them, taking a weight off of them.
And depending on what’s going on, they can use things you say “against” you (in a very fun way you actually enjoy, if that’s your thing)
talk, talk, talk.
overshare
it’s okay 🫂