Quick Thoughts
Small thoughts and messages not worthy of their own pages but still something I feel like putting out there. Largely curated and possibly lightly edited from my posts and discussions in the WFM server.
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After being with him for 2 years, I actually asked to take a few words off the table.
When we’re playing in general I tend to lose words. I fall inside my head and I can communicate but no real words.
Except when we’re trying new things I keep words near the surface. When words are being kept near the surface I end up saying things like “no” or “stop” when I legitimately don’t mean them because it’s just a knee-jerk reaction to something.
So we’ve actually negotiated that if I want to communicate something’s wrong, those specifically don’t actually mean “no” or “stop” and I need more (or at least different) words than that.A lot of the major reason you need “red” is because you want to be able to say “no” and still have a way of saying “no, but no, really”
But given my issues with code words I had to think really hard about how we could let me still have a knee-jerk reaction and not actually prevent him from doing what he felt like because I didn’t actually mean it.When words are deeper I might get “ssstttt…….” here and there but never actually get a full “stop” out. 😅
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